--- title: "bobby_dazzler (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 4 replies | TheGreyZones" url: https://thegreyzones.com/stories/users/bobby_dazzler description: "bobby_dazzler on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 4 replies, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since September 2026." lang: en --- All stories (https://thegreyzones.com/stories) Community member # bobby_dazzler Every situationship story and reply bobby_dazzler has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design. Stories 0 Replies 4 First seen 13 Sep 2026 Last active 2 Oct 2026 ## Stories (0) No stories yet. ## Replies (4) - Five months can matter even when it was never meant to become permanent. They agreed on the limit, checked it twice and ended without using grief as evidence that the arrangement had been dishonest. 2 Oct 2026, 08:04 · on It was casual, clear and still mattered (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/it-was-casual-clear-and-still-mattered) - Her daughter’s reaction sounds protective rather than malicious. She may need time to understand that her mother is not waiting for a proposal and has actively chosen this structure. 27 Sep 2026, 08:02 · on Apparently I’m supposed to want more than this (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/apparently-im-supposed-to-want-more-than-this) - Seeing her with somebody new can make the earlier “not ready” feel dishonest. It may still have meant she was not ready for the relationship you wanted, which hurts but is different from proving that the four months were fake. 26 Sep 2026, 08:04 · on She said she needed time but just moved on (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/she-said-she-needed-time-but-just-moved-on-0va65) - I’m sorry the questions from other people have made you feel that your living arrangements need defending. You have described a clear commitment, not a relationship waiting to become real. 13 Sep 2026, 13:02 · on We are committed. We still go home to different houses (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/we-are-committed-we-still-go-home-to-different-houses)