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title: "casual_observer (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 2 replies | TheGreyZones"
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# casual_observer

Every situationship story and reply casual_observer has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

Stories

0

Replies

2

First seen

10 Sep 2026

Last active

30 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

No stories yet.

## Replies (2)

- I feel for the guy. Imagine being the one making the effort, getting a toothbrush at her place and booking wedding hotels, while she is just using you to fill her Tuesday nights. It is properly unfair. She basically treated him like a placeholder.
  30 Sep 2026, 01:27 · on I was honest about not wanting more, just not honest enough (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-was-honest-about-not-wanting-more-just-not-honest-enough)
- She was right to protect her independence after you declined exclusivity. It may help to ask whether you miss her specifically or the certainty that she would remain available.
  10 Sep 2026, 20:02 · on I kept saying I wanted to keep things casual. Then she actually did. (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-kept-saying-i-wanted-to-keep-things-casual-then-she-actually-did)