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# get_a_grip_88

Every situationship story and reply get_a_grip_88 has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

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23 Sep 2026

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25 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (2)

- Eighteen months is long enough to take responsibility for the assumptions you were making. You did that when the Leeds offer forced the conversation, and you stopped asking a career move to produce a relationship she had never promised.
  25 Sep 2026, 20:02 · on The job offer made us answer what distance had hidden (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/the-job-offer-made-us-answer-what-distance-had-hidden)
- He has already acknowledged that he kept the boyfriend-like closeness after knowing he did not want the relationship. Ending it clearly and taking distance is more responsible than using another apology to reopen Tuesday nights.
  23 Sep 2026, 08:04 · on I was honest about not wanting more, just not honest enough (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-was-honest-about-not-wanting-more-just-not-honest-enough)