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# londoner_99

Every situationship story and reply londoner_99 has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

Stories

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Replies

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First seen

18 Sep 2026

Last active

2 Oct 2026

## Stories (0)

No stories yet.

## Replies (3)

- The poster did ask what the plan was, and the job offer finally produced a direct answer. The issue was not a missing label; she wanted planned weekends while the poster wanted ordinary shared life.
  2 Oct 2026, 20:05 · on The job offer made us answer what distance had hidden (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/the-job-offer-made-us-answer-what-distance-had-hidden)
- Your daughter may be translating commitment into the kind of shared home she recognises. The important part is that you and your partner have made explicit agreements about exclusivity, care and emergencies rather than relying on “we’ll see.”
  25 Sep 2026, 20:02 · on Apparently I’m supposed to want more than this (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/apparently-im-supposed-to-want-more-than-this)
- The October deadline prevents “we’ll find a way” from replacing a decision indefinitely. They still need to discover whether the relationship available across work and travel is genuinely enough.
  18 Sep 2026, 20:02 · on He wants a retirement partner. I still have twelve years of work (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/he-wants-a-retirement-partner-i-still-have-twelve-years-of-work)