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title: "midlands_reality (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 1 reply | TheGreyZones"
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# midlands_reality

Every situationship story and reply midlands_reality has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

Stories

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Replies

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First seen

7 Sep 2026

Last active

7 Sep 2026

## Stories (0)

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## Replies (1)

- I tried setting a decision point too and it did not change the other person’s answer. What it did change was how long I remained in something that was not working for me. A boundary cannot guarantee the outcome you want, but it can stop waiting from becoming indefinite.
  7 Sep 2026, 07:12 · on I was the one keeping it vague until he stopped waiting (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/i-was-the-one-keeping-it-vague-until-he-stopped-waiting)