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title: "pastaponderer (in the grey zone): 0 situationship stories, 1 reply | TheGreyZones"
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description: "pastaponderer on TheGreyZones: 0 anonymous situationship stories and 1 reply, written from both sides of the grey zone. Posting since October 2026."
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# pastaponderer

Every situationship story and reply pastaponderer has posted on TheGreyZones, anonymous by design.

Stories

0

Replies

1

First seen

2 Oct 2026

Last active

2 Oct 2026

## Stories (0)

No stories yet.

## Replies (1)

- Keeping a spare key showed closeness, not evidence that her answer about children would change. The poster now recognises that he used ordinary relationship milestones to negotiate with a boundary she had stated clearly.
  2 Oct 2026, 20:05 · on The answer about children was clear. I kept negotiating with it (https://thegreyzones.com/stories/the-answer-about-children-was-clear-i-kept-negotiating)