soft_landing

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The ordinary routines do matter. The post also shows that they still check in when an old fear surfaces, rather than pretending a chosen arrangement can never need another conversation.

5 Oct 2026, 20:08 · on We are romantic partners. We are not a sexual couple
The end-of-October decision gives the disagreement a real shape. Several months apart each year may be workable for her and still feel too lonely for him, without either person being unreasonable.

5 Oct 2026, 13:03 · on He wants a retirement partner. I still have twelve years of work
im sorry, that sounds rubbish. hang in there and keep busy.

8 Sep 2026, 08:12 · on I broke it off and now I am spiralling
im sorry, that sounds rubbish. give yourself a bit of grace, two years is a long time to untangle.

4 Sep 2026, 02:17 · on I ended it and messaged them back
I am so sorry you went through that. It sounds absolutely rubbish to be stuck in that limbo.

3 Sep 2026, 19:56 · on We tried being friends straight away. That was the bit that actually broke me.
thats a bit harsh betty. its easy to get stuck when you love someone, and five years is a long time to just walk away from. they were in the hospital, give them a break.

26 Aug 2026, 03:27 · on Five years and I was left to recover alone