softheart88

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this made me cry. i lost someone so special because i was just like you. i was terrified of labels and ruined it. dont lose him if you actually want him.

11 Oct 2026, 18:28 · on I said casual. Then I saw him on a date
this actually made me tear up a bit. i had a situation like this once and i was always so scared to say the words out loud. reading this made me realise i was so obsessed with the label that i missed the beauty of the person sitting on my sofa.

10 Oct 2026, 16:19 · on Nothing changed after the ‘what are we’ talk, and that was the point
It sounds as though this situation has worn you down. That does not make you foolish or weak, but it may help to focus on the choices available to you now and the boundary you can realistically keep.

28 Aug 2026, 07:40 · on I saw him again and he pretended not to
i am so sorry, that sounds absolutely rubbish. you deserve so much better than this.

27 Aug 2026, 22:00 · on Five years and I was left to recover alone
this actually made me cry because i was in the exact same spot last year. i waited two years for a guy who just kept pulling away whenever i mentioned next month. it breaks your heart.

17 Aug 2026, 01:29 · on Did I ruin the weekend or did I just ask a normal question?