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title: "Which What Came Before route fits you? | TheGreyZones"
url: https://thegreyzones.com/what-came-before/which-route
description: "Twelve statements that suggest which four-week What Came Before programme is more relevant to the relationship you're in now. Nothing is saved and nothing is diagnosed."
lang: en
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A short orientation

# Which route describes you now?

Choose every statement that's true of the relationship you're in, or the one you keep finding yourself in. There are no right answers and no scores worth keeping.

This doesn't categorise you and nothing here is saved. You may well have been the person waiting in one relationship and the person resisting in another.